What is mature in provoking someone’s reaction in the gym?
if someone is bored at the gym and needs to cut down on time, then let’s not even go. and men staring at girls in the gym are (rightly) objected to because there are people who really just come there to exercise.
This does not mean that they are vaccinated from humor, curiosity, playfulness, but adults can generally separate some situations for one and others for another. we all sometimes play both when we should and when we shouldn’t, but the way it’s presented here, as some constant pattern of behavior, doesn’t sound mature.
in addition, it has two types of humor: one that makes people feel comfortable, and one that makes people feel uncomfortable. i prefer this first one.